{"id":590,"date":"2013-12-17T16:38:23","date_gmt":"2013-12-17T16:38:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=590"},"modified":"2013-12-17T16:39:37","modified_gmt":"2013-12-17T16:39:37","slug":"confidence-part-8-belief","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/confidence-part-8-belief\/","title":{"rendered":"Confidence: Part 8 &#8211; Belief"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Hey, it&#8217;s Carlos &#8211; I&#8217;ve got a guest article from my good buddy Spike today&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Read on&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">________________<\/p>\n<p>Are you the kind of guy that deserves a hot woman in his life? Or several? Are you a <strong>\u201cone in a million\u201d guy?<\/strong> A catch? Do you know without a doubt that you can spend time with any woman and be comfortable? Can you be certain that you can please your woman and make her feel a strong attraction to you? Do you enter a room and walk with pride, not worrying what others think about you? I am, I can, and I have.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/5images.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4151 aligncenter\" alt=\"5images\" src=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/5images.jpg\" width=\"259\" height=\"194\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Is this a boast? Nope. It\u2019s a proven fact. Why can I say this? Because I worked my ass off to learn how, that\u2019s why. And you can do the same. You are reading this because you are in the process too. And I truly think that is awesome. Good on ya! If you keep working, there will come a time, when you realize that yes, indeed, you are deserving, women are attracted to you, and you know how to make them feel very very good. I went to college to train as an actor. I took all the classes and did all the work. I got an agent, started doing auditions, landed some roles here and there, but I was young and green. I was cocky, as so many young, testosterone fueled fellas are, but I was not truly confident. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/alphamale\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3871 aligncenter\" alt=\"6images\" src=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/6images.jpg\" width=\"284\" height=\"177\" \/><\/a> After a few years in the field, lots of failure, and a whole lot of getting back up, dusting myself off, and starting over again, I got very good at what I do. One day, it hit me. I know my shit! I\u2019m a professional! At that very moment, I believed. From then on, I went in to auditions without a care. I realized that I was good and, as long as I did my best, it didn\u2019t matter whether I got the part or not. I now had a level of confidence that is only possible when you believe in yourself and your abilities. <a title=\"Confidence: Part 8 \u2013 Belief\" href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/confidence-part-8-belief\/2\"><strong>Read the rest of the article HERE&#8230;<\/strong><\/a> <!--nextpage--> You absolutely must believe that you are the kind of man who deserves the caliber of woman you desire. If you put up a false front, she will know, and it will come across as incongruent or, even worse, desperation. The whole idea of \u201cfake it till you make it\u201d is valuable to a point, and will open some doors for you. But in order to have true success in any facet of your life, you must truly embody that success. Own it. One of my closest friends, and teachers, always told me to not ask why I was not having success (with women or otherwise), but to ask who I need to become to attract what I want. In other words, don\u2019t search; become. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/alphamale\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3872 aligncenter\" alt=\"112images\" src=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/112images.jpg\" width=\"255\" height=\"198\" \/><\/a> Your habits and behaviors are what define you. You\u2019ve heard, \u201cYou are what you eat?\u201d Well, you are also what you do. Do the things that successful MEN do, and you will become the same. It may take some time, but as long as you do not give up, it will happen. Another of my favorite bits of advice that is fitting here, is \u201cHow you do anything is how you do everything.\u201d Start being meticulous in doing things well, no matter how small. Stop doing things half-assed. Use your entire ass! Do your best, do things right, always. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/alphamale\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3873 aligncenter\" alt=\"11images\" src=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/12\/11images.jpg\" width=\"259\" height=\"194\" \/><\/a> Whether it is making an omelette or splitting an atom, do it to the best of your ability. If you do, you will have no choice but to improve. You will gain skills. With skill, comes confidence, and with confidence, comes belief. When you truly believe that you deserve all that you desire, everything will start to fall into place. You will relax, because you know you have the prowess that comes with being a strong MAN. You will project the confidence that women find truly attractive. And the good news is, it will not be a false front. You will have earned your place in the successful world of dating. You will be way ahead of most of the men on the planet and the ladies will sense it in you and be attracted to you. Because you finally believe.<\/p>\n<p>Go On, Be Strong<\/p>\n<p><strong>Spike Spencer<\/strong>, the Dating Sage <a href=\"www.DontKillYourDate.com\">www.DontKillYourDate.com<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/attractwomen.com\/7words-craving\/stealthsexualattraction.php\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"Cure - 300 x 250 px - 4\" src=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/02\/Cure-300-x-250-px-4.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey, it&#8217;s Carlos &#8211; I&#8217;ve got a guest article from my good buddy Spike today&#8230; Read on&#8230; ________________ Are you the kind of guy that deserves a hot woman in his life? 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