{"id":615,"date":"2014-01-03T15:58:56","date_gmt":"2014-01-03T15:58:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=615"},"modified":"2014-01-03T15:58:56","modified_gmt":"2014-01-03T15:58:56","slug":"how-to-really-connect-with-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/how-to-really-connect-with-women\/","title":{"rendered":"How to REALLY connect with women&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Would you like be that guy who gets almost ANY girl in a snap? Do you want to know the SECRET to lower her guards down and develop an unbreakable bond with you?<\/p>\n<p>No matter what type of guy you are\u2026even if you are not the best looking, the richest, even the hottest\u2026all you need to know is this\u2026.<\/p>\n<p>You have to build an EMOTIONAL CONNECTION with her!<\/p>\n<p>You see women live on a very emotional level. We guys rarely shows our feelings, but for women &#8211; this is the way she feels ALIVE. \u00a0Understand that any guy who\u2019s able to connect with her on that emotional level is the one who\u2019s most likely she will relate to.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/aff\/lustdesire\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"images\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/images.jpg\" width=\"289\" height=\"174\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t mean you have to FEEL all those same emotions, but you have to be able to relate to them.<\/p>\n<p>When you can do this\u2026<\/p>\n<p>YOU will be the guy she answers right away when you call, the one who she says YES to when you ask for a date, and the ONLY MAN she admires and really respects.<\/p>\n<p>So, how to build an emotional connection with her?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here are the 3 MOST IMPORTANT STEPS\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>How to build a REAL connection \u2013 Step 1: Let her talk<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Women love to talk. When you see a woman you like, let her do most of the talking. Remember this: She will feel MOST connected to you when she feels you know her. And by letting her talk, you\u2019ll get more details of who she is.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/aff\/lustdesire\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"3images\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/3images.jpg\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>How to get her to talk? Start with simple question then dig deeper\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s say you ask her where she works. Probe further\u2026find out what made her choose that job. Does she like it or not? If not, why? If yes, which part of her job she loves the most?<\/p>\n<p>Just dig deeper. Probe. Learn more about her.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" title=\"Next page...\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-includes\/js\/tinymce\/plugins\/wordpress\/img\/trans.gif\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>How to build a REAL connection \u2013 \u00a0Step 2: Be a good listener<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not enough that you just let her talk. You have to genuinely listen. Be interested in what she\u2019s saying.<\/p>\n<p>You can try and fake it\u2026 but most likely she\u2019ll figure it out that you&#8217;re not really there. And when she does, you\u2019ll lose that connection in a heartbeat.<\/p>\n<p>Effort and time wasted.<\/p>\n<p>So, it\u2019s best to really pay attention to what she\u2019s saying. Occasionally nod your head, maintain eye contact at all times, repeat what she\u2019s saying and give a response from time to time.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/aff\/lustdesire\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"weed-funny-pictures\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/weed-funny-pictures-300x225.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Those indicators will make her feel a building attraction and connection to you.<\/p>\n<p>You just have to nod and smile, and she&#8217;ll do all the work for you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>How to build a REAL connection \u2013 Step 3: Relate to her<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you let her talk and you attentively listen, you can share some of your personal stories too.<\/p>\n<p>Like after she tells you all the details about her work problems, tell her how you experienced something similar. Your \u201cshared\u201d experiences will make her feel she can relate to you. This will be the start of her trusting you, because we only related to people who we think are like ourselves.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/aff\/lustdesire\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" alt=\"250x250\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/250x250.gif\" width=\"250\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When she starts to trust you, she\u2019ll lower her guard and feel safe around you. Always remember, women open up and get sexually intimate with the man who GETS her and allows her to discuss her favorite topic \u2013 herself.<\/p>\n<p>Allow her to share her passion, hopes, dreams, and fears. All this stuff is invaluable to know what type of woman she is &#8211; and make your seduction that much easier.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.alphaconfidence.com\/aff\/lustdesire\"><strong>If you&#8217;d like to discover 7 words that open a woman up and bring out her &#8220;lust response,&#8221; go here to watch get my special training video&#8230;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Would you like be that guy who gets almost ANY girl in a snap? Do you want to know the SECRET to lower her guards down and develop an unbreakable bond with you? 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