{"id":618,"date":"2014-01-11T17:40:17","date_gmt":"2014-01-11T17:40:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=618"},"modified":"2014-01-11T17:42:38","modified_gmt":"2014-01-11T17:42:38","slug":"5-ways-to-get-a-woman-in-bed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/5-ways-to-get-a-woman-in-bed\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways To Get A Woman In Bed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ok, here we are again on a BIG mystery on How to SEDUCE a woman.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re NOT a rich, famous or good looking guy\u2026 you probably think you just have a slightest chance to get a woman in bed.<\/p>\n

But is that really so?<\/p>\n

Attracting a woman is not intuitive, as you know already. You have to use different strategies, but that doesn\u2019t mean you have to be a manipulative jerk.<\/p>\n

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(Remember these are not rules \u201cwritten in stone\u201d and you can follow your instinct first. IF your instincts have been honed!)<\/p>\n

If you want to CHANGE YOUR LIFE for the better, here are some basic things you have to consider<\/p>\n

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #1: Learn how to LISTEN to her<\/strong><\/p>\n

One of the MOST DESIRABLE characteristics that any woman finds attractive in a man is someone who knows how to listen.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re on the phone throughout the whole date, you’ll end the night without even a goodnight kiss! And it’s unlikely you’ll have a chance to see her ever again.<\/p>\n

Women love to talk\u2026 a lot! They love guys who can hold a conversation\u2026 so KEEP YOUR FOCUS and show a genuine interest in her. But that doesn’t mean you need to get caught up in the emotional crap. Just keep a healthy perspective.<\/p>\n

Doesn\u2019t even matter whether the conversation is deep or superficial. Just show her you\u2019re enjoying her company and you\u2019re having an AMAZING time.<\/p>\n

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AND that you’d be having an amazing time on your own even if she wasn’t there. That’s something that makes a woman pay attention to you as a powerful masculine force. Not distant! Just capable of being happy all on your own.<\/p>\n

By doing this, you\u2019ll have that instant CONNECTION and that\u2019s all you need to have her.<\/p>\n

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #2: Demonstrate Self-confidence<\/strong><\/p>\n

Lack of self-confidence is unattractive\u2026 it is a sign of insecurity, which she\u2019ll find NOT SEXY on any man.<\/p>\n

Look, the whole confidence thing is a bit of a game, and it’s not what most guys think it is. You don’t have to be Mr. Macho Braveheart to get her attention. Just don’t act needy!<\/p>\n

Control your ego no matter how successful you are. Any woman doesn\u2019t like it when you\u2019re boastful about how good you are in whatever you do. Just show genuine interest in her.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t pretend to be someone you are not\u2026 she\u2019ll find out sooner or later and that will ruin any chances you have with her.<\/p>\n

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #3: Make her feel like YOUR QUEEN<\/strong>\"\"<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Make her feel like she\u2019s fascinating to you – in an uncommon way. Forget all your problems, worries, and focus your attention on her. Not in an approval -seeking way, but in a “Hey, what’s this? She’s interesting…<\/div>\n
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“Compliment her outfit, sense of humor, perfume\u2026 NOT her physical appearance. \u00a0Don\u2019t overdo it! Too much can get annoying, and you won\u2019t sound genuine.<\/div>\n
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Be a gentleman. Open the car door, pull out her chair when she\u2019s about to sit\u2026You do this and she\u2019ll notice\u2026and YOU will win her.<\/p>\n

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #4: Don\u2019t look desperate<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s an unattractive look for ANY guy to show how desperate he is for sex.<\/p>\n

If a woman feels like you see her ONLY as a sex object, say GOODBYE to seeing her next to you in bed.<\/p>\n

Why? It\u2019s simple. She doesn\u2019t like to be objectified\u2026 just like you don\u2019t like to be objectified on the basis of how deep your wallet is. (Even if we do objectify from instinct, don’t make it obvious.)<\/p>\n

Treat her like a human being and you\u2019ll be able to seduce ANY woman you like.<\/p>\n

Ways To Get A Woman In Bed #5: Broadcast your Passion<\/strong><\/p>\n

Show her what your PASSION is\u2026 it could be your work, hobby, or car. Prove that you\u2019re not some shallow guy who just wants sex. Talking to her about things you\u2019re passionate about will make her interested in you.<\/p>\n

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This is a nice way to impress her by keeping her attention on you.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re with her, don\u2019t be reluctant to show your REAL emotions\u2026 do a subtle physical flirting and you can easily have her.<\/p>\n

Remember this\u2026 a woman would want to have some sort of an INTIMATE CONNECTION with a guy BEFORE she decides to be in bed with him.<\/p>\n

So it’s up to you to create that connection…<\/p>\n

If you’d like some strategies for how to do this – so that women will practically approach YOU – go watch this special training video…<\/strong><\/a>
\nStay Alpha…<\/p>\n

– Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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