{"id":622,"date":"2014-01-14T17:40:31","date_gmt":"2014-01-14T17:40:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=622"},"modified":"2014-01-14T17:41:43","modified_gmt":"2014-01-14T17:41:43","slug":"is-she-only-after-your-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/is-she-only-after-your-money\/","title":{"rendered":"Is She Only After Your Money?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Are you in a relationship or dating someone you really like? And you\u2019re feeling like you want to jump in\u2026<\/p>\n

You really think she’s a cool chick, and you want to TRUST her.<\/p>\n

There\u2019s only ONE thing\u2026you\u2019ve been having these nagging doubts. It seems SHE wants you for what you can afford to give her, rather than, be with you FOR YOU.<\/p>\n

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But, you\u2019re not really sure…and you don\u2019t want to mess things up with her if you’re wrong.<\/p>\n

What you just want is an assurance\u2026 that she feels the same way you do. You don\u2019t want to be one of those guys who \u00a0– the minute they ran out of cash – their girlfriends ran out too.<\/p>\n

Here are some CLEAR signs that she\u2019s in it for your money \u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n

She’s A Gold Digger – Sign #1: She ALWAYS expects you to pay<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ve always paid for dinners, gifts, shopping\u2026everything! You pay for everything she needs and wants.<\/p>\n

And you let it because you\u2019re thinking it\u2019s her way of surrendering herself to you. Or it’s simply your job as a man to provide for her every whim.<\/p>\n

WRONG.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve dated a girl a couple times\u2026 a girl who\u2019s independent and thinking of a long-term relationship with you, will at least TRY to pay for some of the things you do together. The more grateful she is to have you, the more she will try!<\/p>\n

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It doesn\u2019t have to be HUGE. She can cook for you, or give you massages.<\/p>\n

Anything that says\u2026\u201dHey, I just don\u2019t want to take and take\u2026I\u2019m here to show you, I can give too\u201d.<\/p>\n

If you’re not getting that, she’s a taker, not a giver.<\/p>\n

She’s A Gold Digger – \u00a0Sign #2: \u00a0She feels entitled to a comfortable life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Some women move around like they\u2019re entitled to a good life\u2026 like it\u2019s supposed to be handed to them on a golden platter.<\/p>\n

Think of Paris Hilton, the Playboy bunnies – they have an expensive lifestyle. If you see her expecting the same from you\u2026it\u2019s a clear sign she has dollar signs for pupils.<\/p>\n

Try saying NO for a change. When she asked you to pay something, tell her you didn’t get a chance to go by the ATM. See how gracefully (and eagerly) she volunteers. You’ll learn a lot about her from this one small test.<\/p>\n

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Or when she recommends an expensive restaurant (again), tell her you can\u2019t afford it and suggest an inexpensive one.<\/p>\n

See what her reaction is\u2026if she\u2019s in it for MONEY, she\u2019ll give you grief and drama, or won\u2019t go out with you.<\/p>\n

If she\u2019s in it FOR YOU, she\u2019ll smile and still go out with you. She\u2019ll say\u2026 \u201cAnywhere is okay as long as we\u2019re together\u201d.<\/p>\n

She’s A Gold Digger – \u00a0Sign #3: She doesn\u2019t have career aspirations<\/strong><\/p>\n

If your woman doesn\u2019t have a job and just stays at home or worst\u2026she\u2019s still staying with her parents…<\/p>\n

Think twice.<\/p>\n

Meaning, would you want to be with a woman whose needs and wants depend COMPLETELY on you?<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t have to be a high-powered executive or in the same financial status as you. You just want her to be able to stand on her own and have that level of maturity in life as you do.<\/p>\n

If the woman you\u2019re into has more than one – or all of these signs I’ve talked about – \u00a0She\u2019s probably just in it for your money.<\/p>\n

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Staying with her or not\u2026it\u2019s all up to you. But you know what you’re in for if you do – and you’ll know that YOU chose it. It didn’t just “‘happen” to you.<\/p>\n

Remember, if you look into the future\u2026do you want that kind of woman with you? Will she be there for you through good and bad?<\/p>\n

Will you have her loyalty?<\/p>\n

Her trust?<\/p>\n

Or would you rather have a woman that will stand by you no matter what?<\/p>\n

Life is hard as it is\u2026and you don’t want to be with someone that will make it even more challenging.<\/p>\n

If you’d like to know how to spot the other danger signals in women, then I suggest you look at this:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Click here to know that one thing that can save you from a life of misery – or give you the woman of your dreams<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

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Stay Alpha…<\/p>\n

– Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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