{"id":651,"date":"2014-02-13T19:21:44","date_gmt":"2014-02-13T19:21:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=651"},"modified":"2014-02-13T20:07:38","modified_gmt":"2014-02-13T20:07:38","slug":"questions-you-should-never-ask-on-a-first-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/what-to-say-to-women\/questions-you-should-never-ask-on-a-first-date\/","title":{"rendered":"Questions you should NEVER ask on a first date"},"content":{"rendered":"

I want to show you how to make that first good impression on your first date – and make her feel connected with you and see you as an AWESOME guy.<\/p>\n

Would you like her to tell everyone that she had the BEST time ever with you?<\/p>\n

To make sure your first date is a success and you don\u2019t ruin your chances of having a second date with her, here are some questions you should NEVER ask\u2026<\/p>\n

Question You Should Never Ask #1: \u00a0Don\u2019t ask anything that involves numbers.<\/strong><\/p>\n

That means her age, weight, salary, rent or how many times she checks her Facebook. Just about anything that you know the answer will be a NUMBER.<\/p>\n

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Aside from it being inappropriate, you\u2019ll come off as a person intruding her private life. And that\u2019s rude.<\/p>\n

Besides, numbers are a FACT, and facts make for boring conversation with women. Guys love stats and numbers, but women don’t remember or care for them.<\/p>\n

Question You Should Never Ask #2: \u00a0Don\u2019t ask about her Ex.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t want your date to be awkward – and asking her about her ex will give you exactly that. And when she feels uncomfortable, the rest of the night is ruined. It’s hard for a woman to shake that kind of thing off. Once she jumps into crappy emotions, it’s like quicksand to her mood.<\/p>\n

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And it\u2019ll be bad for you too. Imagine her reminiscing about her ex, telling you all the bad stuff and the boring details. You’d be clawing your face off by the time the check came.<\/p>\n

Question You Should Never Ask #3: Don\u2019t ask the WHY.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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Never ask about WHY she\u2019s into this or that. That\u2019ll only make her think that the fact you\u2019re asking, you don\u2019t know her at all. And that means, you guys have nothing in common, therefore, you\u2019re not \u00a0CONNECTING.<\/div>\n

So, just focus on what\u2019s good about you two \u2013 what you guys have in common. Your similar likes, it could be about favorite food, sports, travel destinations, movies\u2026anything that\u2019ll her say \u201cOh, yeah! I like that too!\u201dWhen you’ve got enough of those built up, then go deeper by asking “What was it about X that you thought was so good?” That’s the right way to ask “why.”\"\"<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Question You Should Never Ask #4: Don\u2019t ask her about other women.<\/strong><\/p>\n
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Never ask her details about any of her girl friends. She\u2019ll think you\u2019re fishing for information – and that you want to bang her friends. (Seriously, this is a major thing for women.)<\/p>\n

And she’ll get insecure and think you really don\u2019t want to date her in the first place\u2026or worst, you\u2019re a player and you\u2019re trying to play her and her friends. And that\u2019ll turn the evening into your own private hell.<\/p>\n

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Just imagine how you would feel if she starts asking about your guy friends – especially your best friend. You\u2019d feel weird about the whole thing right?<\/p>\n

So, stay away from this. And concentrate on her and ONLY her.<\/p>\n

Question You Should Never Ask #5: Don\u2019t say anything remotely like: “I think I really like you…”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Opening up your emotions on a first date will come off to her as YOU being needy and weird. In her eyes you\u2019re an immature little boy. Don\u2019t kill the initial stage of attracting her to you.<\/p>\n

Remember, first date gives you the opportunity to get to know each other better. Show her your best self. This is your chance.<\/p>\n

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And don’t suck all the mystery and wonder out of it for her. The more she knows about how you feel, the less likely it is you’ll be sleeping with her.<\/p>\n

Keep in mind that your goal for the night is to keep her interested in you by making her feel good throughout the night – laughing and having fun – while keeping her wanting more.<\/p>\n

So, have fun with her – and do your best to not be a try-hard.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

If you want to find out how to attract her to you – go grab my special training video.<\/p>\n

This exclusive, private video presentation<\/a> will reveal to you how “The Lust Response”<\/strong><\/a> can be triggered in almost any woman…<\/p>\n

– making her feel an almost uncontrollable urge to “get physical” with you as fast as possible.
\nCLICK HERE to watch the video now…<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Stay Alpha…<\/p>\n

– Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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