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COMMENTS FROM A READER:
\n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Hi Carlos.<\/p>\n

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I want to make a quick comment about this newsletter. (on dating younger women\u2026)You may remember \"\"<\/a>my story from earlier communication between us, but here’s a short debrief:I am 34, and last year I met this lovely 20 year-old, and messed everything up. Of course I did, back then I knew nothing about how to handle women.<\/div>\n
I started reading everything I found about this topic, some good, some not that good, but it helped me focus. And now, 7-8 months later, she’s mine.<\/div>\n
I love younger women. I love their energy. And of course they look great too.
\nI have tried out a lot of different things in the meantime, and my experience is that younger women actually think it’s a huge compliment, being “hit on” by older guys. And if you approach them with confidence, humor and style, they find it charming. Dirty, creepy and insecure older guys are of course reckoned as sleezy or perverts.But you have to be selective yourself. Many young women aren’t mature enough, and you’ll easily grow tired of them. You have to show her that YOU are selecting her. Some guys act as if a young girl is a price that’s unreachable to them.<\/div>\n
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I actually asked a lovely 19 year-old “What do you have to offer an experienced and grown up man like me other than a pretty face?” She then started telling me how good she was at cooking, washing, how she loved kids ( I have two ) and so on. I brought her home that night.So, here I am, 34 years old with a beautiful 21 year old girlfriend. I changed my clothing, shaved my head ( I was balding, so all women now tell me I look a lot younger ) but most important, I changed my attitude. And it has given me my favorite girl. She now tells me I’m her dream guy, that she’s never met anyone like me, and that I’m “the man”, capital M. I’ve never been told this before. And I enjoy every second of it \"WhatYour friend,Mikael
\nNorway<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
______________________<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
CARLOS XUMA COMMENTS:<\/strong><\/div>\n
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These are some great points for all guys to keep in mind.<\/strong><\/div>\n
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The first is to be selective. Most guys are so desperate, they can’t understand a “selective” mindset. They get caught up in trying to get a woman so much that they forget that the most unattractive person on the planet is the one without any standards\u2026<\/div>\n
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I have dated women up to 10 years or more younger than me, and it’s not hard at all. Especially when you realize what most women have to pick from in their own age bracket.<\/div>\n
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You can also learn the skills to date younger women\u2026<\/a><\/div>\n
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CLICK HERE for more information on how to attract and date younger women\u2026<\/a><\/strong><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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