{"id":759,"date":"2014-10-13T06:26:21","date_gmt":"2014-10-13T06:26:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=759"},"modified":"2014-10-16T16:20:22","modified_gmt":"2014-10-16T16:20:22","slug":"throw-away-everything-you-know-about-first-dates","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/confidence-with-women\/throw-away-everything-you-know-about-first-dates\/","title":{"rendered":"Throw Away Everything You Know About First Dates"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What comes to mind when you\u2019re about to go out with your lady friend for the first time?<\/p>\n<p>Maybe a candlelit dinner at a fancy restaurant? A romantic stroll down the beach and a picnic paired with her favorite wine?<\/p>\n<p>All of that sounds fine, but NOT on the first date.<\/p>\n<p>To avoid looking desperate, you need to rethink how the first date fits in the big picture. This isn\u2019t the time to bombard her with the romantic stuff; instead, it\u2019s your chance to know each other a little better.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Laying the Groundwork<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Remember: proper seduction is all about gradual escalation.<\/p>\n<p>Most women don\u2019t want to feel rushed into something they\u2019re not ready for. So, your first date should go by two simple guidelines:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Keep it short and sweet; anything over an hour is too much<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Make her feel good around your presence<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Stop Being a Wuss and Get The Girl\" href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1334 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/love1-300x211.jpg\" alt=\"Young couple drinking wine and having fun\" width=\"300\" height=\"211\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you can pull that off, you\u2019ll be able to leave things on a positive note until you see her again.<\/p>\n<p>Plus, you\u2019re not going to create a good first impression by letting the first date drag on and on. Boredom is not a good feeling to have.<\/p>\n<p>With that said, it\u2019s best to plant that seed of attraction early on by coming in prepared.<\/p>\n<p>Ask yourself, \u201cWhat is she into?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Chances are you have the same interests (since you liked her enough to ask her out), or she likes something you\u2019re willing to learn more about. Find out what it is and read up on it.<\/p>\n<p>Knowing her type also gives you an idea of where to take her. For now, meet her somewhere that seems more casual than romantic. Try a coffee shop (if she\u2019s the intellectual type) or a bowling alley (for the sports-minded ladies) to keep things pressure-free.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, a little homework never killed an Alpha Male.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1335 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/attracting-women.jpg\" alt=\"attracting-women\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>In the Field<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Armed with a rough idea of what to talk about, the next step is to employ a simple yet powerful technique to ensure conversational success.<\/p>\n<p>Get her going with a little right-back-at-you language. Allow me to explain:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Let\u2019s say she tells you about that eye-opening foreign student exchange program she did years ago. So, the takeaway is that she\u2019s into traveling and exploring other cultures.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; You shoot this right back at her by saying the \u201csame\u201d thing: <em>\u201cHey, that\u2019s pretty cool\u2026I remember spending the summer at my grandfather\u2019s farm for the first time. I was mostly raised in the city, so it was a totally different world &#8211; in a good way. It\u2019s awesome being out of your comfort zone and trying something new, you know what I mean?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n<p>With that, she\u2019ll totally feel that you \u201cget\u201d her and create an instant connection.<\/p>\n<p>And here\u2019s a ninja tactic to create even more attraction from the get-go: use your body.<\/p>\n<p>Do a little research on non-verbal body language to make your physicality congruent with your Alpha Attitude. A good posture, making eye contact and the right gestures go a long way in getting that second date.<\/p>\n<p>While you\u2019re at it, take notice of her appearance (without ogling of course) and compliment that cool necklace she\u2019s wearing or her shade of lipstick. As long as it\u2019s something G-rated, she\u2019ll feel great that you acknowledged the work she put into looking good.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1336 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/images1.jpg\" alt=\"images1\" width=\"293\" height=\"172\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Don\u2019t Think About the Future<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Seriously. You can\u2019t afford to be preoccupied with the outcome.<\/p>\n<p>Whether she turns out to be the woman of your dreams or flakes out on you, it doesn\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n<p>Focus on her, and more importantly, on having FUN. Believe or not, that\u2019s the whole point of the date.<\/p>\n<p>You can ask yourself what worked and what didn\u2019t AFTER you\u2019ve gone home.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Be Decisive<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>End the date on your terms. This is the perfect time to bring up the second date, now that you\u2019ve broken past the wall of awkwardness.<\/p>\n<p>Tell her, \u201cIt\u2019s been really great, and I hate to run. But how about I pick you up at 7:30 PM, Thursday next week?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019ve played it right, her brain should be swimming in all those feel-good hormones you\u2019ve triggered. Not only will she be sorry to see you leave, she\u2019ll also be eager to see you again.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1337 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/aspnew-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"aspnew-300x250\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Speaking of hormones, you probably haven\u2019t heard of this phenomenon called \u201cT-Bleed\u201d. It\u2019s when your testosterone levels drop until you\u2019re rendered sterile \u2013 not a good thing when attracting women.<\/p>\n<p>Learn how to protect yourself from this game-killer before it\u2019s too late. Click here to know more.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>If you want to have that sexual confidence to attract any woman you want, check this out&#8230;<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What comes to mind when you\u2019re about to go out with your lady friend for the first time? Maybe a candlelit dinner at a fancy restaurant? 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