{"id":768,"date":"2014-10-13T06:37:55","date_gmt":"2014-10-13T06:37:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=768"},"modified":"2014-10-16T16:24:12","modified_gmt":"2014-10-16T16:24:12","slug":"the-one-mistake-alpha-men-dont-make","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/the-one-mistake-alpha-men-dont-make\/","title":{"rendered":"The One Mistake Alpha Men Don\u2019t Make"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of guys think they\u2019ve got it together when it comes to attracting women. But there\u2019s one behavior that robs them of their masculine power and lessens women\u2019s respect for them.<\/p>\n<p>As men, we\u2019re defined by our opinions. What we think says who we are, and apologizing for our beliefs can make a guy look weak and low-value.<\/p>\n<p>Take matters on dating for instance. Some guys would rather go out with different women at a given time.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6047 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/how-to-seduce-a-woman-300x241.png\" alt=\"how-to-seduce-a-woman\" width=\"300\" height=\"241\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>To them, they\u2019d rather get to know more than one person to make sure that when they do commit to someone, they\u2019re making the best choice possible.<\/p>\n<p>That seems like a fair enough deal as long as he\u2019s on the level with the women he\u2019s dating. If he made any one of them think that they\u2019ve gone steady while STILL seeing other girls, well, that\u2019s something else.<\/p>\n<p>And the biggest mistake in this situation would be to backpedal &#8211; or worse, apologize &#8211; just to appease a particular woman. If you tried to convince her desperately that you she should be ok with you dating other women, it makes your words incongruent with your actions.<\/p>\n<p>And that makes you unattractive on every level because she\u2019ll know that you relinquished your opinion for the sake of her approval.<\/p>\n<p>Not a good move.<\/p>\n<p>A better way would be to act cool about it and not make it an issue at all. When the subject comes up, the best course of action is to be honest but casual about what you\u2019re doing.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m assuming of course, that you haven\u2019t made any sort of promise to that particular girl that you\u2019d date her exclusively. Otherwise, letting her know that you\u2019re STILL dating other women will rightfully earn you a slap in the face.<\/p>\n<p>Obviously, lying is just as reprehensible and backing down from your opinion.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, it\u2019s cool if you\u2019re not comfortable with dating different women at a given time. If that\u2019s your opinion, then you shouldn\u2019t have to do something you\u2019re not ok with.<\/p>\n<p>The important thing is that you\u2019re standing by something you genuinely believe in. In the long run, being your most authentic self will get you more respect than adjusting your values just to please a girl.<\/p>\n<p>And hey, not all women will be cool with you doing this. If she wants to stop dating you, then it\u2019s all for best. Chances are one of the other women you\u2019re dating has the same wavelength as yours.<\/p>\n<p>Just remember that if she\u2019s ok with it, then it\u2019s only right that she can date other guys as well.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6030 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/aspnew-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"aspnew-300x250\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Like I said, it\u2019s all about being honest, transparent, and above all, fair with the women you\u2019re dating.<\/p>\n<p>In the end, you\u2019ll command more respect from them than taking the easy way out by lying or apologizing about your opinions.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s really what Alpha Behavior boils down to: unapologetically living your life in a way that works best for you, while respecting other people.<\/p>\n<p>Here\u2019s something else an Alpha Male has a handle on \u2013 keeping his masculine power to optimal levels. While some guys are gradually losing their testosterone over time (yes, this is a real problem), other men know the secret to keeping theirs for good.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>If you\u2019re interested in being Alpha to the core, you can check this out by going here.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A lot of guys think they\u2019ve got it together when it comes to attracting women. But there\u2019s one behavior that robs them of their masculine power and lessens women\u2019s respect for them. 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