{"id":777,"date":"2014-10-13T06:46:29","date_gmt":"2014-10-13T06:46:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=777"},"modified":"2014-10-16T16:26:34","modified_gmt":"2014-10-16T16:26:34","slug":"how-to-make-her-want-you-without-trying","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-approach-women-meet-women\/how-to-make-her-want-you-without-trying\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Make Her Want You Without Trying"},"content":{"rendered":"

If you\u2019re like most guys interested in attracting girls, you probably think that changing a woman\u2019s thoughts about you is pretty much impossible.<\/p>\n

For instance, pretty much all the attractive women are going to assume that any guy who approaches them are going to hit on them or act in a pathetic \u201cI-like-you-please-like-me-back\u201d kind of way.<\/p>\n

So that means you\u2019ve already got your work cut out for you and convince her you\u2019re not THAT guy. How do you get her to think otherwise about you?<\/p>\n

In the movie Inception, one of the goals of the main character was to plant an idea in the head of important people, like a CEO of a major corporation, to influence events to their advantage. He did this by literally hacking into that person\u2019s mind to make him think or feel in a certain way.<\/p>\n

In the real world of course, this isn\u2019t possible \u2013 and even if it were, it would be creepy and unethical to convince someone this way.<\/p>\n

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However, you can still get a woman to set you apart from other guys by making subtle but powerful suggestions in her head.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t convince her by walking up to her and saying, \u201cHey, I\u2019m totally not like those other men who you\u2019ve shot down before\u2026I\u2019m not going to tell you how hot you are or buy you a drink \u2013 I\u2019m different.\u201d<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t work like that. You can\u2019t convince a girl you\u2019re a high quality guy with your words; only your actions can do that.<\/p>\n

To make her less defensive around you, you need to act like an attractive guy. And the first way to do that is by learning the basics of attractive body language.<\/p>\n

What you are on the outside can help give her an idea of who you are on the inside. Do your homework on the subject and learn how to convey your attractive personality through the right gestures and motions.<\/p>\n

Aside from that, the most powerful way you can change a woman\u2019s reality is by avoiding all the supplicating, needy behavior that she\u2019s seen from other men. You know, complimenting her on something obvious like her looks or going through the predictable chit-chat that she\u2019s learned to tune out.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re coming from this place of neediness, you\u2019ll never give her a chance to develop any feelings of attraction for you. There has to be some sort of sexual tension first, so you can use it to your advantage.<\/p>\n

And the best way to do that is by leaving a little room for mystery. Make her think stuff like, \u201cIs he into to me, or is he just really that funny with everyone?\u201d<\/p>\n

Instead of being dumbstruck by her looks (something she\u2019s used to), subvert her expectations and have a little nerve to tease her a bit. Honestly speaking, most guys are too chicken to poke a little fun at a woman in a positive, good-natured kind of way because they\u2019re afraid of offending her.<\/p>\n

In truth, women will be more offended by looking at them with googly eyes and asking for their number without capturing their interest first.<\/p>\n

So have a little faith and don\u2019t put too much stock into what you believe she thinks about you.<\/p>\n

In fact, you shouldn\u2019t be so hung up on her opinion of you, since you\u2019re just there to have a little fun and mess around with her.<\/p>\n

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Once she feels that absence of pressure \u2013 as in, not thinking, \u201cOh no, here\u2019s another guy I have to turn down\u201d \u2013 she\u2019ll think to herself, \u201cWell, this guy isn\u2019t hitting on me \u2013 what\u2019s up with that?\u201d<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t know it, but you\u2019ve just turned the tables on her. From here on out, she\u2019ll be trying to convince YOU that she\u2019s attractive.<\/p>\n

Meanwhile, you have all the leverage to make her want you, thanks to your carefree, no-strings-attached, fun personality.<\/p>\n

And that\u2019s how the game is played, gents.<\/p>\n

Speaking of which, if you really want to boost your inner game, you need to hold on to every bit of masculine power in your system. No matter how good your conversational game is, you can\u2019t seal the deal if you\u2019re suffering from T-Bleed, a condition that causes men to lose their testosterone.<\/p>\n

The good news is that you can keep this from happening \u2013 check this out to learn more.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n

– Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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