{"id":783,"date":"2014-10-13T06:52:16","date_gmt":"2014-10-13T06:52:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=783"},"modified":"2014-10-16T16:28:10","modified_gmt":"2014-10-16T16:28:10","slug":"how-to-be-at-your-most-alpha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/how-to-be-at-your-most-alpha\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Be at Your Most Alpha"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Masculinity is a word that gets thrown around all the time, and not enough guys understand what it\u2019s about \u2013 or embrace its true meaning.<\/p>\n<p>Some think having a Porsche or cash to burn is what attracts women, but all this external stuff is just icing on the cake. The qualities that constitute \u201cbeing a man\u201d helps a guy get those things, but more importantly, they\u2019re also responsible for turning women on.<\/p>\n<p>Now, in a world where traditional gender roles are being challenged, the definition of manliness might be a bit fuzzy for some guys. Families with stay-at-home dads and working moms are a good example of breaking stereotypes.<\/p>\n<p>Men in these situations need to make use of feminine skills like nurturing relationships, caring for others and finding joy in the beauty of life. Women in the workplace on the other hand, need to be competitive, driven and focused \u2013 all of which are masculine qualities.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6064 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/man-with-two-women--300x199.jpg\" alt=\"man-with-two-women-\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>But when it comes to dating however, it\u2019s a whole other ballgame. Even if we\u2019re living in a progressive time like this, you\u2019ll still need those masculine traits to activate a woman\u2019s feminine attraction circuitry.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few ways to be more manly to women and live a fuller life at the same time:<\/p>\n<p><strong>#1: Be Passionate About Something<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Are you a dedicated philanthropist or a hardcore extreme sports enthusiast? Being dedicated to a cause is great because being focused on something that enriches your life automatically makes you an interesting guy.<\/p>\n<p>Also, having a hobby or career you\u2019re genuinely interested in also means building principles and values around it \u2013 like integrity, leadership, inner strength, and responsibility. All of this makes for an authentic masculinity that draws women in.<\/p>\n<p>So get busy doing something you honestly care about. No matter what niche you\u2019re in, you\u2019ll always run into someone you can demonstrate your masculine qualities to without looking like you\u2019re trying too hard.<\/p>\n<p><strong>#2: Have Something To Talk About<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The other side effect of having a passion is that you can be an expert on a certain field and talk about it. Women are interested in guys who have something interesting to say in an authoritative capacity.<\/p>\n<p>But don\u2019t stop there; you can also branch out and do a little research on other stuff you might find interesting.<\/p>\n<p>Art, sports, music, movies, fantasy books and even stuff like quantum physics are great ways to expand your mind and have a bunch of topics to keep your conversations from going into a dead end.<\/p>\n<p><strong>#3: Brush Up On Your Style <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nothing says to women that you\u2019re a man who has it together than being up to scratch on your looks. Outward appearances aren\u2019t everything, but it does matter to a certain point.<\/p>\n<p>The best way to be masculine is by packaging yourself in a way that\u2019s consistent with your inner attitude. And that means your sense of style and attention to hygiene allow women to take you seriously as an adult.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6030 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/aspnew-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"aspnew-300x250\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>At a basic level, a woman needs to know she\u2019s dealing with a grown-up who has things under control. And knowing how to dress appropriately and taking care of yourself has a lot to do with that.<\/p>\n<p>If you need a little help in this department, get someone who has a good sense of style and can give you an honest opinion. All it takes is some guidance to get you on your way.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s really what defines being a man: having the discipline, determination and that inner core to live a well-balanced life. Stay on top of this, and not only will you help yourself, you\u2019ll attract women as an afterthought.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, you\u2019ll also want to keep a potential roadblock out of the way before it becomes a problem. T-Bleed is a growing phenomenon that\u2019s causing men to lose their testosterone, along with their masculine essence.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>You can put a stop to this before it starts \u2013 click here to learn more.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Masculinity is a word that gets thrown around all the time, and not enough guys understand what it\u2019s about \u2013 or embrace its true meaning. 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