{"id":786,"date":"2014-10-13T09:51:23","date_gmt":"2014-10-13T09:51:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=786"},"modified":"2014-10-16T16:28:55","modified_gmt":"2014-10-16T16:28:55","slug":"decoding-female-behavior-101","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/decoding-female-behavior-101\/","title":{"rendered":"Decoding Female Behavior 101"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Playing games: it\u2019s always been a part of dating, and winning it means getting inside her head.<\/p>\n<p>However, the one thing we have going against us is the male tendency to see things that aren\u2019t always there, such as attraction. Figuring out whether she\u2019s interested in you or not can be a tricky deal, but there are a few tricks to help you crack her cryptic ways.<\/p>\n<p><strong>She Doesn\u2019t Want to Look Too Eager<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it &#8211; we\u2019re guilty of this behavior too. Like us, women don\u2019t want to give the impression that they have nothing going for them other than waiting for the next guy to come along.<\/p>\n<p>She has a happening life, and by making herself unavailable from time to time (e.g. \u201cI\u2019ll be swamped with work this weekend\u201d, \u201cI\u2019d love to, but my yoga class got moved to Tuesday\u2026\u201d), she\u2019ll trigger your desire to chase her all the more.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1346 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/couple-flirting-while-drinking-wine-300x169.jpg\" alt=\"couple-flirting-while-drinking-wine\" width=\"300\" height=\"169\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the \u201cYou want what you can\u2019t have\u201d principle in effect here. And it keeps her from looking needy.<\/p>\n<p>If you want to know if she\u2019s still in the game, ask her out a few times &#8211; but never on short notice.<\/p>\n<p>Let her know a few days in advance that you want to take her out so she knows you\u2019re not just treating her as a backup.<\/p>\n<p>Be on the lookout if she\u2019s giving you signs of hope. If she agrees in spite of her busy schedule, then things are going well.<\/p>\n<p>But if she keeps making excuses even after you\u2019ve planned ahead, then take it as a \u201cno.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>Radio Silence<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maybe you sent her a funny SMS the other day and you haven\u2019t heard from her at all. Now you\u2019re wondering, \u201cDid she drop off the face of the Earth?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Relax. This could still be part of her anti-neediness plan, so play it by ear.<\/p>\n<p>If she\u2019s not sure that you\u2019re interested in something long-term, she\u2019ll hold off replying to gauge your reaction. Facebook messages, tweets and other forms of online contact are more casual, so she probably wants more than just a little nudge from you.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re in this situation, test the waters by giving her a call. Having a voice conversation is different from social media; taking that first step to call will tell her that you value the time and attention she gives you.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Playing The Jealousy Game<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ok, so we\u2019ve established that women aren\u2019t always available to create scarcity and set the pursuit in motion.<\/p>\n<p>But there\u2019s another way to raise the stakes even higher, which is casually mentioning other guys she knows.<\/p>\n<p>She might be dropping hints of how they find her attractive &#8211; this communicates either of the following:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cYou should move on because I don\u2019t really see this going anywhere.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>\u201cLook how desirable I am \u2013 you better make a move before it\u2019s too late.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The second one applies to you if she doesn\u2019t mention anything about liking them back, or tells you that she brushed them off. In any case though, be nonchalant and make a joke about it instead.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1337 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/aspnew-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"aspnew-300x250\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I know it\u2019s discouraging at times, but it helps if you look at the big picture. Chances are she\u2019s just looking out for herself and doesn\u2019t want to end up as another notch on some guy\u2019s belt.<\/p>\n<p>As long as you know what the signs are and how to respond to them, she\u2019ll be coming your way soon enough.<\/p>\n<p>But there is a way to get her attracted to you so much that she won\u2019t bother playing these games at all. You just need to make sure your testosterone levels don\u2019t drop because this is a real problem that\u2019s affecting other men.<\/p>\n<p>Once you get this sorted out, women can actually detect this in a man and it flips a primal attraction switch deep in her brain. It\u2019s not even a matter of choice \u2013 she\u2019ll be compelled to like you no matter what she does.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Check this out to learn more about harnessing your Alpha Sexual Power.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Playing games: it\u2019s always been a part of dating, and winning it means getting inside her head. 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