{"id":791,"date":"2014-10-13T09:58:50","date_gmt":"2014-10-13T09:58:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=791"},"modified":"2014-10-16T16:30:24","modified_gmt":"2014-10-16T16:30:24","slug":"shes-already-looking-for-your-replacement","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/shes-already-looking-for-your-replacement\/","title":{"rendered":"She\u2019s Already Looking for Your Replacement"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A relationship is not an appliance you can put on \u201cset it and forget it\u201d and expect it work flawlessly. Complacence is the biggest mistake a guy can make in dating, and there\u2019s some disturbing new evidence of the consequences.<\/p>\n<p>In a recent <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.sfgate.com\/relationships\/2014\/09\/30\/survey-says-half-of-all-married-women-have-a-backup-husband-in-mind\/\">survey<\/a>, it looks like a bunch of women are looking for a \u201cbackup husband\u201d (as the study puts it) in case things don\u2019t work out with their current guy.<\/p>\n<p>As disturbing as it is to think there are partners looking for a fallback guy even before the relationship\u2019s over (instead of, you know, ending it first AND then finding someone else), this new discovery is a wake-up call for men nonetheless.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not cool with this kind of behavior, but it does point out the important fact that an Alpha Guy needs to keep his woman happy (regardless of whether she has Husband 2.0 on standby, and in which case, it\u2019s on her).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-6074 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/man-and-woman-300x199.jpg\" alt=\"man-and-woman\" width=\"300\" height=\"199\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>The Truth About Women<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Keeping your girl attracted is never a destination, but a never-ending journey you\u2019ll take with her.<\/p>\n<p>Things will never come to a point where she\u2019ll say, \u201cYup, I think I\u2019m good right here. You can stop being fun, interesting and affectionate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Some guys have told me that you constantly need to game a woman to keep the \u201cchase\u201d going even when you\u2019ve been together for YEARS. And in my own experience, I\u2019d say they couldn\u2019t be more right.<\/p>\n<p>It takes a certain state of mind \u2013 specifically, being whip smart \u2013 to keep the relationship fresh and vibrant all throughout. Women who cheat on their partners often do so out of boredom and frustration.<\/p>\n<p>Remember all the tingles you felt when you first met your girl? If you\u2019re lazy enough, she\u2019s going to recreate those long-lost tingles with someone else just to recapture that \u201cfalling in love stage\u201d (and all the mushy feelings that follow).<\/p>\n<p>So how do you prevent this potential disaster from happening?<\/p>\n<p>Well, the most important thing to remember is that relationships \u2013 healthy, lasting ones anyway \u2013 never happen by accident. Happiness is always a premeditated effort.<\/p>\n<p>This attitude alone spells the difference between keeping her and losing her to someone else. Let\u2019s face it \u2013 people have needs, and they\u2019ll gravitate in another direction if they\u2019re not happy where they are now.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5861 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/3images.jpg\" alt=\"3images\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Always Have the Long Game in Mind<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Making something happen (i.e. keeping your girl happy and attracted to you) isn\u2019t about taking huge strides, it\u2019s the little steps in between that get you from a casual connection to a committed relationship.<\/p>\n<p>What that means for you is this: If you want to win the war for her heart, you need to win the smaller battles.<\/p>\n<p>A steady dose of love and intrigue is the perfect maintenance plan for your woman. Feed her sizable morsels of the good stuff every day, and she\u2019ll never go hungry.<\/p>\n<p>Most guys think that the solution to a failing relationship is taking drastic measures. All it will do is backfire, if not make her pack her bags faster and find another guy.<\/p>\n<p>Think of it like this \u2013 when she\u2019s gradually come to the point where she hates your guts, a weekend at some fancy out-of-town resort is not going to make it all better.<\/p>\n<p>(That also applies to getting her shiny, expensive trinkets to fill that emotional void \u2013 just saying.)<\/p>\n<p>If anything, the whole trip is going to be a long exercise in awkwardness with a load of silent hostilities on the side.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m not saying a getaway isn\u2019t a good thing under the right circumstances. In fact, it\u2019s a good idea to steal away with your girl for a few days as a nice treat if you\u2019re getting along just fine.<\/p>\n<p>What I am saying is that desperate Hail Mary passes aren\u2019t going to undo all that complacency and neglect. If you want her to fall for you <em>for good<\/em>, you need to invest yourself in the long run.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-5782 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/images.jpeg\" alt=\"images\" width=\"201\" height=\"251\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ideas For Long-Term Bliss<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What do those \u201cdoses of love\u201d that I mentioned mean exactly? Let\u2019s go over them:<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Going out of your way (at a reasonable level) to do things for her that make her feel special. Some of this includes running across town to get that wine she loves because the one near your place ran out. It\u2019s \u201clittle\u201d gestures like these that remind her of why she chose you.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Support her even if you don\u2019t agree with or understand the stuff she likes. This includes her need to buy more shoes than she can wear, her love of Sex and the City, her hobbies and interests, and things she\u2019s generally passionate about (career-wise or philanthropic stuff). People are meant to grow in relationships, and if you let her do this, it\u2019s going to have a powerful psychological effect on her.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Communicate like an adult. If she\u2019s talking (or complaining to you) about something important, make her feel heard. More than that, paraphrase what she told you and ask her if you understood her right (\u201cSo you\u2019re telling me\/what you mean is ________\u201d). Even if you really don\u2019t care about the topic, listen anyway and address whatever the issue is. The fact that you still made the effort is more important in the bigger picture.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Basically going the extra mile (read: not the same as being a doormat) when she needs you. Some sacrifices need to be made, and the occasional inconvenience isn\u2019t as bad compared to the long-term happiness of the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Tease her. Send naughty texts and emails to keep the intrigue alive. To give you an idea, send her a message when you\u2019re bored at work (\u201c<em>Boss says I look different this morning. I said it was my new tie instead of telling him it was our mind-blowing morning quickie<\/em>.\u201d), if you\u2019re out with the boys (\u201c<em>I\u2019ve been around the guys enough for tonight.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Looking for a woman to take advantage of me when I get home, was hoping you\u2019d fit the bill<\/em>.\u201d), or even at home (\u201c<em>I\u2019m almost done with messing with the car at the garage and I\u2019m heading out to the grocery store. Lemme know if you want to be ravished before I leave. I have a busy schedule, but I can squeeze you in \ud83d\ude42<\/em>\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>Romantic relationships are based on sex, and keeping the spark alive means being sexy in subtle but insidious ways (just remember to message the right person and avoid any, um, inappropriate pics unless you want a potential scandal on your hands).<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-6030 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.win-with-women.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/aspnew-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"aspnew-300x250\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Let me also point out that you\u2019ll still need to do most of these even if you don\u2019t feel like it. How you feel and what you need to do for the long-term good doesn\u2019t always have to be the same.<\/p>\n<p>Learning to put her needs ahead of yours is not just a sign of a good partner, but also a higher sense of maturity.<\/p>\n<p>Like I said earlier, people grow in a relationship. This is a chance for you to move past the idea that the women owe you just for showing up or doing the minimum work to get by.<\/p>\n<p>Most of all, the better you can keep a habit of maintenance, the better you can destroy any chance of her plan B coming to light.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Here\u2019s another way to stay on top of your game \u2013 stop testosterone depletion from happening to you. It\u2019s affecting other guys as we speak, but you can go here to keep yourself from going empty.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A relationship is not an appliance you can put on \u201cset it and forget it\u201d and expect it work flawlessly. 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