{"id":819,"date":"2014-10-26T15:46:05","date_gmt":"2014-10-26T15:46:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=819"},"modified":"2014-10-26T15:46:05","modified_gmt":"2014-10-26T15:46:05","slug":"the-instant-attraction-trigger-you-need-to-learn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/miscellaneous-dating-tips-for-guys\/the-instant-attraction-trigger-you-need-to-learn\/","title":{"rendered":"The Instant Attraction Trigger You Need to Learn"},"content":{"rendered":"

The easiest way to make women like you is by showing them your relationship potential. When it comes to attracting a girl, the first thing her brain is going to look for is your ability to be a good partner.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ll be blunt: unless you get past this barrier, she\u2019ll never want to get naked with you.<\/p>\n

I mean, most guys will want to sleep with a girl even if they never see each other again. That\u2019s just how we are.<\/p>\n

As for a woman, she\u2019s looking for \u201cboyfriend qualities\u201d in a guy before he can get any further with her. One of these important traits is none other than the ability to keep her interested on a consistent basis.<\/p>\n

And a lot of that comes from being able to keep the levity alive. In other words, you need to make a woman laugh.<\/p>\n

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This is one of the most powerful ways to make her want to get with you. Being humorous speaks of a confident personality, which is what any guy should aspire for.<\/p>\n

Plus, a funny guy doesn\u2019t take himself too seriously, which means he has an easy-going vibe that pulls women in.<\/p>\n

If that wasn\u2019t enough, consider the fact that humor and intelligence are closely linked. If you\u2019re funny and engaging, she\u2019ll put two and two together in your favor.<\/p>\n

Besides, you\u2019ve heard the worn-out phrase about laughter\u2019s therapeutic effects, right? Well, it works in dating as well.<\/p>\n

Pickup artists are good at taking women through an emotional ride using stories that evoke excitement and\/or humor. They understand that the more a woman is amused, the easier it is to trigger all those feel-good hormones in her brain.<\/p>\n

Ever wonder why people refer to the feeling of attraction as \u201cchemistry\u201d?<\/p>\n

Laughter and excitement leads to attraction because of the onset of neurotransmitters like dopamine that give her a natural high. So in short, making her laugh will literally get her addicted to you.<\/p>\n

A sure-fire way to get her interested is by recounting a good story, like something stupid that happened to you, or a scary situation that you got out of. The key is to spice things up from an emotional perspective.<\/p>\n

When guys have a conversation with their friends, they usually leave this out and stick to the facts instead.<\/p>\n

Women require a different approach. Don\u2019t just give her the details – put some feelings into it!<\/p>\n

It\u2019s no mystery that women love emotional chaos, and if you can introduce a dash of drama to your storytelling routine (in a funny kind of way), then you\u2019ve got her locked in.<\/p>\n

Any good story has a catchy opening act and a middle part that turns up the tension. Then the story needs to come to a head so that it reaches a climax where everything works out and you live happily ever after.<\/p>\n

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When you play it this way \u2013 things starting out horribly but turning out OK in the end \u2013 she\u2019ll end up laughing at your close shave (e.g. \u201cYou still managed to make it to your friend\u2019s bachelor party AFTER getting robbed? Haha, that\u2019s awesome!\u201d).<\/p>\n

So that\u2019s really your basic guideline: Give her the chance to live through your stories, and she\u2019ll be chasing after that rush \u2013 and after you.<\/p>\n

After all, she wouldn\u2019t want to stick around with a boring guy, right? In the long run, she needs a man who can make her experience all those good emotions.<\/p>\n

More importantly, this actually takes precedence over physical attributes. Notice how some stand-up comics or comedians that aren\u2019t exactly ripped still<\/em> manage to get loads of women?<\/p>\n

Let that sink in for a moment.<\/p>\n

Aside from humor though, you can increase your chances exponentially by always having enough testosterone. Like it or not, women can unconsciously detect if a guy is packing enough of it in his system.<\/p>\n

To learn more about harnessing your Alpha Sexual Power, head on over here.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n

– Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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