{"id":822,"date":"2014-10-26T16:31:00","date_gmt":"2014-10-26T16:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=822"},"modified":"2014-10-26T16:31:00","modified_gmt":"2014-10-26T16:31:00","slug":"the-trickiest-thing-about-women-and-what-to-do-about-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/the-trickiest-thing-about-women-and-what-to-do-about-it\/","title":{"rendered":"The Trickiest Thing About Women \u2013 and What to do About it"},"content":{"rendered":"

There\u2019s the age-old saying that men are simple creatures. And it\u2019s true, especially when it comes to relationships.<\/p>\n

As long as she\u2019s pretty, smart and won\u2019t complicate your life, you\u2019ve already won the dating lottery.<\/p>\n

For women though, they have a more elaborate set of requirements that\u2019s confusing to guys.<\/p>\n

\u201cDamned if you do and damned if you don\u2019t\u201d often applies when dealing with the opposite sex \u2013 it\u2019s no wonder men find the female psyche baffling.<\/p>\n

And those requirements I mentioned? Sometimes women don\u2019t know what they really are in the first place.<\/p>\n

For instance, you might think she wants a man who\u2019ll treat her like a princess, worship the ground she walks on, and basically exist to serve her every need.<\/p>\n

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She may even believe the same thing too, but it\u2019s the farthest thing from what she REALLY wants.<\/p>\n

You can understand how confusing this is for the average guy.<\/p>\n

But let me help you out here.<\/p>\n

Most women have grown up believing in this going-all-out-white-knight-on-a-shiny-horse theory, but this fantasy doesn\u2019t hold up in the real world of dating.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why even if she thinks this is what she wants, she\u2019ll actually end up bored to tears \u2013 if not freaked out – by this kind of behavior.<\/p>\n

Worse, men who buy into this over-hyped belief end up spending obscene amounts of money on women they literally met a few days ago.<\/p>\n

I mean, I get the idea that you should make the effort to make a woman happy, but it doesn\u2019t apply to strangers \u2013 no matter how hot they are.<\/p>\n

Usually, this kind of behavior comes out on the first date. Don\u2019t be the guy who takes her out to a restaurant where the appetizers cost an arm and a leg, or any of that clich\u00e9d stuff.<\/p>\n

Those things aren\u2019t necessarily bad, but save it for when you\u2019re celebrating your first anniversary. For now, you need to have a little self-respect and pace yourself.<\/p>\n

Plus, women are turned off when you try too hard. There\u2019s too much pressure on her to be romantic when there isn\u2019t even any chemistry yet<\/em>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s also why guys shouldn\u2019t buy a woman a drink when approaching her for the first time. There\u2019s nothing attractive about an attitude that says, \u201cI did this, what are you going to do for me?\u201d<\/p>\n

So basically, you\u2019re putting on the cart before the horse, when it should be the other way around.<\/p>\n

On the first (and possibly second) date, go somewhere light, casual and above all, inexpensive. Remove any element of pressure so you can draw her in slowly.<\/p>\n

Feel her out. Get to know her better before making your big move.<\/p>\n

Learn who she is, what her interests are and what she\u2019s passionate about.<\/p>\n

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And when things are going smoothly, make a graceful exit and set up the next date. You\u2019ll leave her on a high note, and that gives her something to look forward to.<\/p>\n

Even better, you made the effort to know her first; when you do something special for her on the next date, she knows it came from the heart.<\/p>\n

This is a better alternative to making a desperate, one-size-fits-all, over-the-top ploy that will backfire in the end.<\/p>\n

That said, don\u2019t be afraid to subvert her expectations. Be different from all the other chumps she\u2019s dated before.<\/p>\n

And if you want to truly set yourself apart from the pack, you\u2019ll need to learn something they don\u2019t know.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s called Alpha Sexual Power, and you\u2019ll discover the secret to keeping your testosterone at peak levels so you\u2019re always on top of your game.<\/p>\n

This makes attracting women effortless because you\u2019re using your inner animalistic charm \u2013 it\u2019s something you didn\u2019t know that was there all along.<\/p>\n

And I\u2019ll show you how to do it, step by step \u2013 your journey starts here.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n

Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n

– Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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