{"id":882,"date":"2015-02-16T17:46:34","date_gmt":"2015-02-16T17:46:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=882"},"modified":"2015-02-16T17:51:47","modified_gmt":"2015-02-16T17:51:47","slug":"how-to-tell-if-your-girlfriend-is-crazy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/how-to-tell-if-your-girlfriend-is-crazy\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Tell If Your Girlfriend Is Crazy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s face it \u2013 as guys, we\u2019re not really big on emotions. We don\u2019t go out to the bar and tell each other, \u201cDude, why don\u2019t we talk about our feelings over a couple of drinks?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>For the most part, that\u2019s just not how we roll. I mean, I\u2019d wager a lot of guys have been brought up to think that showing emotion is a sign of weakness.<\/p>\n<p>Chalk it up to the old-school way of thinking, I guess. And that\u2019s probably why we tend to go a bit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QGHjjrWIiyM\" target=\"_blank\">overboard with the \u201cCrazy\u201d label<\/a> when our wives or girlfriends get emotional from time to time.<\/p>\n<p>Honestly, I think it\u2019s a good idea if we scaled back a bit on the \u201ccrazy\u201d comments just because they\u2019re not dead stoic like some of us. This funny video makes a good point of that:<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QGHjjrWIiyM\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Sure, the ladies in our lives can get a tad unreasonable from time to time, but playing the crazy card doesn\u2019t really work unless she\u2019s doing something that\u2019s genuinely insane.<\/p>\n<p>For example, if her actions justify calling the police or getting the fire department involved, then it\u2019s safe to say she isn\u2019t all \u201cup there\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>(And trust me, I\u2019ve dated more than a few of these women myself to know the difference.)<\/p>\n<p>Is it too much of a stretch to say that showing a bit of emotion is healthy? Again, I\u2019m not talking about extremes here \u2013 like say, someone\u2019s girlfriend smashing his car or setting his clothes on fire.<\/p>\n<p>(If you\u2019re dating a girl like that, you need to RUN away\u2026and get a restraining order while you\u2019re at it.)<\/p>\n<p>Even comedian Bill Burr, with all his masculine Boston swagger, admits how guys make fun of each other (and not in the most politically correct of ways) for doing anything that\u2019s \u201cremotely sensitive\u201d or makes you \u201cmore of a loving, caring individual.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>In one of his stand-up sets, he even goes as far saying that guys drop dead at 55 because they were \u201csuppressing the urge to hug a puppy\u201d or \u201cadmit that a baby\u2019s cute.\u201d A little exaggeration there, but that\u2019s comedy for you.<\/p>\n<p>Yeah, so if your woman is getting a bit worked up over a fight, maybe you could use a little perspective and take it in good stride. Besides, we get a little crazy too sometimes.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QGHjjrWIiyM\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1337 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/dating-tips-for-guys-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/aspnew-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"aspnew-300x250\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>By the way, here\u2019s a perfectly sane way to stay on top of your game: stop testosterone from \u201cbleeding\u201d out of your system.<\/p>\n<p>I say that because there\u2019s this ongoing phenomenon called T-Bleed which is exactly what it sounds like. It\u2019s basically losing your masculine essence which is the ONE thing you need to attract women.<\/p>\n<p>When that happens, it could drive a guy nuts.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/QGHjjrWIiyM\" target=\"_blank\">You need to prevent that before it even starts. I\u2019ve got this killer course to help you with that, and you\u2019d be crazy not to check it out TODAY.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Stay Alpha,<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let\u2019s face it \u2013 as guys, we\u2019re not really big on emotions. 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