{"id":900,"date":"2015-02-17T17:12:15","date_gmt":"2015-02-17T17:12:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=900"},"modified":"2015-02-17T17:12:15","modified_gmt":"2015-02-17T17:12:15","slug":"how-to-take-your-breakup-like-a-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/how-to-take-your-breakup-like-a-man\/","title":{"rendered":"How to take your breakup like a man"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So <a href=\"http:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/2014\/12\/03\/facebook-say-thanks-ex_n_6264962.html\">this guy<\/a> reacted on Facebook about his breakup.<\/p>\n<p>But it\u2019s not the usual sob story you\u2019d typically see from a lesser man: no whining, no tears and no passive-aggressive status updates.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, he won the Internet by making a hilarious, self-depreciating #SayThanks video dedicated to his ex. In his personalized tribute to their short-lived relationship, he toured viewers through the painful process of his breakup.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/crying-man.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-5116 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/crying-man-300x125.jpg\" alt=\"crying-man\" width=\"300\" height=\"125\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>His slideshow included photos of him listening to Adele to drown his sorrow and getting wasted in his underwear, all of which made for good, harmless fun.<\/p>\n<p>The best part is that his ex got a laugh out of it too, making him a super cool guy in her book.<\/p>\n<p>It takes an Alpha Male to take it in stride when the shit hits the fan. Breakups can be brutal, so it really says something about a guy if he can poke fun at himself in spite of it.<\/p>\n<h3>In real life, he probably took it just as hard as anyone else. The only difference is that he came out of it OK and didn\u2019t harbor any bitterness towards his ex.<\/h3>\n<p>If anything, staying classy online will actually increase your chances of getting back with an ex (if that\u2019s what you want). Even if it\u2019s not a guarantee, it certainly wouldn\u2019t hurt your standing with her.<\/p>\n<p>And while you\u2019re at it, you should absolutely stay away from an ex\u2019s timeline too. Don\u2019t browse through her pictures and turn a blind eye to her status updates \u2013 hit that unfollow button instead.<\/p>\n<p>There\u2019s no reason for you to torture yourself by seeing her live her life without you (or with someone new). Just don\u2019t go down that path.<\/p>\n<h4>Give yourself time to live on your own. It\u2019s healthy to realize that being in a relationship doesn\u2019t define you as a man.<\/h4>\n<p>On a side note, consider unfriending her altogether if things ended badly and you don\u2019t want to stay in touch. Double that if she\u2019s stalking you or has some issues she has to deal with.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, just keep things light and casual. Don\u2019t hit \u2018like\u2019 on everything she posts or bug her with messages; the worst thing you could be is that clingy ex she wants to get away from.<\/p>\n<p>The best move is to keep the connection as it is while not being overbearing. Give her the option to still contact you if she wants.<\/p>\n<p>Oh, and you probably know this already, but I\u2019m going to say it anyway: don\u2019t plaster your timeline with those vague, not-meant-for-anyone-in-particular posts obviously aimed at your ex.<\/p>\n<p>(Also, don\u2019t diss her in public either \u2013 take the high road even if you\u2019re upset.)<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t waste your time holding your breath, hoping she\u2019ll understand your cryptic post about how she left you high and dry. If you have anything personal to post, block her name so she doesn\u2019t see it \u2013 there\u2019s no point in trying to get under her skin or make her feel guilty.<\/p>\n<h3>Back in the real world, keep living your life even if you\u2019re torn up. Working on the other parts of your life is the best therapy for a breakup.<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4409 aligncenter\" src=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/aspnew-300x250.jpg\" alt=\"aspnew-300x250\" width=\"300\" height=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Relationships come and go, but you\u2019ll always need to take care of yourself whatever happens. Take control of your life and use this time to be a better guy \u2013 your future self will thank you for it.<\/p>\n<p>By the way, here\u2019s one more thing you can take control of: your testosterone levels. A lot of men are losing theirs, and that\u2019s a bad thing because it\u2019s essentially losing your masculine essence, i.e. your ability to attract women.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.attractwomen.com\/alphasexualpower\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>CLICK HERE ==&gt; if you want to stay on top of your game.<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<div tabindex=\"-1\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<div>\n<div id=\":t8\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<div id=\":uj\">\n<div>Stay Alpha&#8230;<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\n<div><strong>&#8211; Carlos Xuma<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\"> ______<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So this guy reacted on Facebook about his breakup. But it\u2019s not the usual sob story you\u2019d typically see from a lesser man: no whining, no tears and no passive-aggressive status updates. 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