{"id":907,"date":"2015-02-18T18:16:54","date_gmt":"2015-02-18T18:16:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=907"},"modified":"2015-02-18T18:16:54","modified_gmt":"2015-02-18T18:16:54","slug":"explosive-strategies-to-make-her-desperately-desire-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/explosive-strategies-to-make-her-desperately-desire-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Explosive Strategies To Make Her Desperately Desire You"},"content":{"rendered":"

What\u2019s the difference between sleeping with someone you\u2019re attracted to\u2026<\/p>\n

..and sleeping with someone you\u2019re TOTALLY INTO?<\/em><\/p>\n

Plenty, and the latter is what you should aim for.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s because people who have sex but are merely attracted to each other won\u2019t want anything else after the fact.<\/p>\n

In other words, there\u2019s NO REAL connection present and that means you\u2019re going to be awkward around each other outside the bedroom.<\/h4>\n

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And that\u2019s not what I want for you.<\/p>\n

To really make a girl crave you inside out (and not just certain parts of your anatomy), you\u2019ll need to create that genuine SPARK that\u2019ll make her come back for more.<\/p>\n

But how can you trigger this insatiable desire that\u2019s inside every woman?<\/p>\n

First, it needs to be done right off the bat. You need to plant those mental seeds within minutes of first meeting her; getting that leverage is your number one priority.<\/p>\n

Attraction Mistakes 101<\/strong><\/h3>\n

A lot of men mess up this crucial part because they have NO IDEA what to say to a woman to turn her on.<\/p>\n

For instance, some guys think that it\u2019s enough to relate to her on some level, like talking at length about something that they both like.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s nice to connect this way (anything\u2019s better than getting rejected, right?), but focusing on this stuff isn\u2019t going to cut the mustard in the world of dating.<\/p>\n

(Maybe it\u2019s enough if you wanted to be just friends\u2026but that\u2019s not why you\u2019re reading this, right?)<\/p>\n

All it does is create a portal into that platonic friend zone that all guys dread. If you keep on this let\u2019s-be-harmless-friends path, that\u2019s all you\u2019ll get.<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t take it up a notch after figuring out your similarities, she\u2019ll see you as one of those guy friends she wants to have around, but NEVER sleep with.<\/p>\n

Avoiding the Friend Zone<\/strong><\/h3>\n

If you want to avoid getting pigeonholed into that safe, harmless category reserved for Average Frustrated Chumps, you\u2019ll need to project a masculine presence.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s basic science: opposites attract, so your manly qualities will always appeal to her feminine side.<\/p>\n

So how do you do that?<\/h4>\n

Simple \u2013 you have to avoid doing anything she\u2019d normally do with her girlfriends:<\/h4>\n