{"id":955,"date":"2015-11-07T02:09:57","date_gmt":"2015-11-07T02:09:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/?p=955"},"modified":"2015-11-07T08:31:25","modified_gmt":"2015-11-07T08:31:25","slug":"5-steps-to-get-a-girlfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.carlosxuma.com\/newsstand\/how-to-attract-women\/5-steps-to-get-a-girlfriend\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Steps To Get A Girlfriend"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first time I felt the craving for a girlfriend, I thought there was something wrong<\/em> with me.<\/p>\n

I mean, really. A girlfriend?<\/p>\n

I wanted to get laid<\/strong>, sure. But did I have to find a girlfriend<\/span> to do that?<\/p>\n

What about the all-powerful casual hookup?<\/h4>\n

I did a lot of soul searching and discovered that even though there’s a lot of social pressure on guys to want to get a girlfriend – and that it’s only acceptable to connect a “relationship” with “regular sex…”<\/p>\n

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Even with all that baggage, I realized I actually did want a girlfriend. A steady.<\/h2>\n

A chick that would watch movies with me, and play games, and go to parties, and…<\/p>\n

Yeah, I know. It sounds nuts sometimes, but the truth is that guys really do want a cool chick<\/strong> to hang out with and do things with.<\/p>\n

It’s only natural, and it’s not weird<\/em>.<\/p>\n

But – if you want a girlfriend, chances are you probably know there are a few steps<\/strong> to accomplishing this, right?<\/p>\n

It’s not as easy as using some online service<\/strong> to pick her out from a catalog… or swipe her in an app<\/strong>, though.<\/p>\n

Let’s face it – the really<\/span> high quality girls don’t<\/strong> typically use those services. You have to know where to go<\/strong> and how to make her feel gut-level<\/em>, primal attraction.<\/p>\n

So let me hook you up with 5 steps to get a girlfriend – fast!<\/p>\n

How to find yourself a girlfriend – Step 1: Know where to go looking<\/h2>\n

These days, you have plenty of options<\/strong> to find girls. They’re everywhere<\/span>, after all.<\/p>\n

But you’ll be tempted to try and shortcut the process by either doing online dating, or using a smartphone app like Tinder,\u00a0Blendr<\/strong> or Pure<\/strong>… (And don’t worry, if you don’t recognize some of the ones out there, just wait a few weeks. There will be a hundred<\/em> more.)<\/p>\n

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There’s nothing wrong with using online apps or even online dating… but you need to know what you’re getting into.<\/p>\n

For many girls, these apps aren’t necessary.<\/h4>\n

Think about it for a second… if she’s a hot property, does she *need* to be using an app to find guys?<\/p>\n

Nope.<\/p>\n

She just goes out and meets guys left and right.<\/p>\n

Or…does she<\/em>?<\/p>\n

The truth is that the most attractive women you see on the street or in the supermarket or … well, anywhere<\/strong>, really…<\/p>\n

THOSE girls are rarely – if ever – hit on by guys.<\/h3>\n

WAIT… let me clarify, she gets hit on – but it’s all the douchey guys<\/strong> who she isn’t interested in. But the douchebags stack the odds in their favor by simply being the guy who isn’t intimidated<\/span> by her beauty.<\/p>\n

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So it’s up to you… If you make a move on one of these girls, you stand a very real chance<\/strong> of getting somewhere if you don’t<\/em> come across like a pickup artist, or a clueless dope.<\/p>\n

Be cool.<\/h3>\n

Don’t<\/span> sprinkle: “Yo!” into your conversation like some MTV vidiot.<\/p>\n

(Yeah, that’s my term. Vidiot.)<\/p>\n

So realize that each place you use to find a girlfriend – whether it’s a bar, club, online, singles event, library, shopping mall, wherever – those places are a reflection of the people that are there in some way.<\/h2>\n

So realize that sometimes they’re into<\/strong> meeting guys, sometimes not<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Obviously, if it’s an event or location that people typically go to, ask yourself what kind of girl goes there. And also, are you able to use that location to your advantage<\/em>?<\/p>\n

Think about it…<\/p>\n

What kind of woman looks for a boyfriend at a club?<\/p>\n

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What kind of girl will you meet at a seminar on soulmates?<\/p>\n

You can meet a girl ANYWHERE<\/strong> you like. It’s one giant buffet… but it requires you to choose and use that location creatively.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Get A Girlfriend – Step 2: Hook her – fast<\/h2>\n

This is where pickup artists excel<\/span>, to be quite honest.<\/p>\n

There are a lot of legit “pickup artist techniques” I incorporate in my teaching, because … they work.<\/h4>\n

What makes all the difference in the world is the intent<\/strong> behind each of the methods or “tricks.” If it’s just to manipulate her into bed, that’s just not<\/span> the right way to do it.<\/p>\n

However, if<\/em> you’ve got a real desire<\/strong> to make it work for both<\/span> of you – a classic “win win” in my terminology…<\/p>\n

…then you can take any technique and make it ethical.<\/h4>\n

My feeling is that if you’re a good person of character<\/strong>, then you deserve<\/span> to have the girl you want.<\/p>\n

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And if you make her life more enjoyable<\/em> for it, than it’s more of a tragedy to let her go and fall into the arms (and bed) of some player who hurts her.<\/p>\n

Which is better<\/strong> for her?<\/p>\n

You have to be able to hook her fast, to make sure she doesn’t fall in with one of these bad-boys. It’s the right thing to do.<\/h4>\n

I don’t have the time or space here to go into great detail on how you do it, but it’s about as simple as this:<\/p>\n

1) Get her attention.<\/h3>\n

You have to wake her up to your presence. She’s gotta know you’re there – and you’re not afraid<\/span> to let her know.<\/p>\n

Whether that’s a conversational opener like: “Hey, I need a woman’s opinion on something…”<\/p>\n

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…or if it’s just a sincere compliment<\/strong> like: “I just had to let you know that when you walked in, the room lightened up. You have a wonderful energy.”<\/p>\n

You have to be brave enough<\/em> to let her know you’re there.<\/p>\n

2) Make her smile<\/h3>\n

You don’t have to turn into Louis CK<\/strong> or Jerry Seinfeld<\/strong>. Standup ability is NOT<\/span> required. (In fact, that kinda works against you.)<\/p>\n

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You just need to let her know that you’re not a super serious dude. Those guys are typically a bit creepy<\/strong>, and no fun.<\/p>\n

In fact – the key to it all is being FUN.<\/h4>\n

Be lighthearted<\/strong>, wear a happy expression (NOT a goofball smile that makes you look…”simple”).<\/p>\n

If she responds to you with a smile or even a polite laugh, she’s trying to get you to feel welcome and comfortable.<\/p>\n

3) Demonstrate value<\/h3>\n

She does need to see that you value yourself<\/em>, and you’re not<\/span> a wuss – to put it bluntly.<\/p>\n

You don’t have to say or prove anything in this direction the first time you talk to her, either. Just the act of talking<\/strong> to her implies confidence and value.<\/p>\n

Only men of status and value will do what you’re doing.<\/h4>\n

You definitely shouldn’t brag<\/span>, however. That’s a rookie move<\/strong> that will kill<\/em> your chances.<\/p>\n

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Yeah, you want to impress her<\/strong>, but you don’t want to do it by making her think you’ve got a wickedly huge ego.<\/p>\n

Instead, just tell her you’re<\/strong> impressed with *HER*.<\/p>\n

You see, that’s a little psychological trick<\/strong> most guys don’t know about. If you express that you’re impressed with her, it means that you hold enough status<\/em> and value that you can make that judgment.<\/p>\n

And that subtly<\/strong> implies that you’re at least high value enough to see HER<\/strong> value in the first place.<\/p>\n

It works like a champ – and it’s a must<\/span> to use in conversation.<\/p>\n

What’s next to win a girlfriend? Step 3: Get the connection<\/h2>\n

There’s really two parts<\/span> to this…<\/p>\n

The first part<\/strong> is that you have to get her to feel like you’re real and genuine enough that she can be connected to you.<\/p>\n

The second part<\/strong> is to get her phone number – or some kind of contact info – so that you can RE-connect<\/em> with her later.<\/p>\n

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It’s not hard to do if you’ve managed to keep her engaged in conversation for at least a few minutes.<\/p>\n

Use my simple number close here:<\/p>\n

“Hey, you know we might want to connect again later. I think I might like talking to you again. Give me your number and we’ll see what happens…”<\/h2>\n

I like leaving that on a slightly ambiguous<\/strong> note. Mostly because every guy SAYS he’ll call, but rarely<\/em> does.<\/p>\n

If you don’t say you will, she won’t have that jaded fear<\/strong> that you won’t. She’ll fantasize<\/span> that you probably will.<\/p>\n

And it makes it sound like you’re high value<\/strong> enough to not need to lock it down this second<\/em>.<\/p>\n

You might take a bit of convincing<\/strong>, in fact. Which again implies high value.<\/p>\n

When you want to find a girlfriend – Step 4: Get the date<\/h2>\n

Some guys like to try to get a girl on a date right away<\/strong> when he’s first talking to her. I like to lean back<\/strong> and let it feel more natural.<\/p>\n

(It’s rare<\/strong> she’s got the time to do anything right at that moment, anyway.)<\/p>\n

After you’ve got her number, start a little text flirting<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

(I’ve got some great free tips on how to do that – click HERE to check it out<\/a>)<\/p>\n

Then you sneak in a call or two to solidify<\/strong> the connection.<\/p>\n

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Then you simply come up with a good opportunity<\/strong> to get her out.<\/p>\n

Don’t wait too long, because every day after you met her she’s basically forgetting you. You gotta stay relevant.<\/h3>\n

I’ve even said that to girls:<\/p>\n

“Hey, if you don’t meet me for a drink tomorrow night, survey says you’ll probably forget about me. My ego just can’t handle that kind of trauma, so let’s get it together…”<\/h2>\n

The point is to get her out again with you as soon as possible.<\/p>\n

Get a girlfriend – Step 5: Get the NEXT date<\/h2>\n

First dates are simple, but rarely<\/em> repeat.<\/p>\n

The true measure of your ability is to turn this meet up into ANOTHER<\/strong> one, which establishes that there is attraction, and that there will be even more to come.<\/p>\n

If you get to date #3, the odds are with you that this girl could not only<\/strong> become your next girlfriend, she’s very likely to pull you into the sack<\/span> with her.<\/p>\n

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And that’s not a bad way to go, if you ask me…<\/p>\n

So there you have it – FIVE\u00a0kick-ass ways\u00a0to\u00a0kick-start your\u00a0mission to find that one\u00a0special girl to create awesome memories with. Once you start using these basic steps, you’ll be MUCH CLOSER\u00a0to the Holy Grail of Dating<\/strong> that other guys can only dream<\/em> about.<\/p>\n

But if you want to get there\u00a0FASTER and avoid those deadly, attraction-killing\u00a0mistakes along the way, then my advanced program on getting your dream girlfriend<\/a> is what you need.<\/p>\n

Here’s the\u00a0most effective\u00a0dating\u00a0course out there that will take you on the QUICKEST\u00a0path to finding the perfect girl for you – click HERE to get started.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

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