3 Easy Steps
For How To Ask A Girl Out...
One of the most frequent questions I get from guys is
how to ask a girl out. It's one of those things that
seems so hard up front, but is not really all that difficult
once you understand what women want from men. It's all
about your attitude - and tuning into her channel.
So to help you understand how to ask a girl out, I'm
going to coach you through my 3 easy steps:
How To Ask A Girl Out - Step 1: Make her an offer she
can't refuse.
Sun Tzu - the great military strategist and philosopher
- once said that every battle should be won BEFORE it's
fought. What he meant was that people who rush into situations
without a plan to back them up are asking for trouble.
There's never a reason to leave your strategy up to
fate, or destiny, - or even "chance." If you
practice something called "inevitability thinking" you
will always succeed.
All you have to do is ask yourself
one question: "In order to make it INEVITIBLE that
this girl will want to go out with me, what would I have
to do?" When you answer that question, your date
is guaranteed.
What this all boils down to is making one thing clear
to the woman you want to ask out: That if she doesn't
go out with you, she's going to be missing out on a FUN time. Remember, we're all tuned in to "WII
FM" Radio
- What's In It For Me?
We don't purposely put ourselves
in boring situations. So if you want her to want to be
a part of your plan, show her how much fun she'll have
with you. That's what she needs to see and feel to go
out with you.
Only ask a woman out when you know she's
going to say yes. Anything else is sloppy strategy, and
you'll just get your butt kicked. As well as your self-confidence.
The Alpha Man doesn't roll the dice - he owns the table!
How To Ask A Girl Out - Step 2: Assume the Sale
There is an old sales technique that involves just TELLING your prospect what you're going to do. You assume that
the sale has already been made.
You don't say: "So should I go ahead and place
the order?" - which just sounds scary...
You say: "Which color would you like, black or
red?"
You're assuming that she's going to say yes. Assume
that and the chances actually increase that she will.
Because deep down inside of all of us is the desire to
FOLLOW. We want someone to make the decisions for us,
and a woman is no different. In fact, she needs this
even more from a man so that she can believe that he'll
have the Right Stuff when it comes time to protect her
or provide for her.
So instead of saying: "So can we go out sometime...?
Maybe Saturday?"
You say: "We have to hang out sometime. Tell
you what, I'll meet you at O'Hara's at 7:00 tomorrow.
Give me your phone number just in case..."
See what that last version does? It assumes she's going
to be there. And you're even locking her in by getting
HER number in advance - and then letting her know that
you're the one that could cancel on her.
One is weak and supplicating, and the other is strong
and confident. You want to push the envelope a bit and
demonstrate that you know you have the "goods" -
and you can deliver them.
Take charge! You're the man - which means you're the
leader.
So LEAD her to the win-win goal you both want.
How To Ask A Girl Out - Step 3: Be prepared to convince.
Most women know that "hard to get" works.
It works like CRAZY.
So what she will do is to test you a bit by giving you
a little resistance. Because if she jumped at the chance
to go out on a date with you, that would be too easy
- and no woman wants to seem easy.
She might come up with reasons why she can't make it,
or why she's already got something going on, or ... gosh,
she "just doesn't know if she can make it..."
You have to use your own common sense to tell if she's
being difficult, but the truth is that she just needs
to be convinced that this is the right thing for her
to do. After all, you're one big risk to her. You're
another guy who could wind up being a bore, or a time
drain, or emotionally draining. Or she might get emotionally
involved with you, and you could break her heart - like
that last guy.
So you have to be more sure of your value than she can
doubt you.
Sell it a little. Let her know what a great time you
two will have together, and tease her a little for not
being adventurous.
If you did your work in the last two steps, this last
step will be a piece of cake. In fact, if you really
impress her with how much fun she's going to have with
you in your "un-refusable offer," and you demonstrate
clear confidence that you're "the man," you'll
probably find her GIVING you her number. She'll be dropping
more hints than a 5 year-old who wants a bike for Christmas.
The secret to how to ask a girl out is all in your attitude
and your posture. If you come across as approval-seeking,
or that you've got no other options, don't be surprised
when girls start flaking and refusing. But the entire
game changes when you start playing the role of the man
who's out there having fun, living his life, and letting
other people come along for the ride.
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