Most guys have had a woman that they just couldn't forget.
You probably have at some point in your life. You know,
that cute little girl you just couldn't get enough of.
But then something went wrong and you broke up. And all
you can think of is how to get back your ex girlfriend.
Well, if you want to really get her back (without scaring
her away more with your attempts) then these are the
3 stealth tactics you need to know for how to get back
ex gilrfriend. As long as she didn't jump right into
the arms of some other guy, you've got a real shot at
winning back your ex girlfriend.
Here are the 3 Stealth tactics you need to use:
Get Back Ex Girlfriend - Stealth Tactic 1: Open
the Hurt Locker.
The best first step to getting your ex back is to let
go of whatever anger you have about the breakup. It may
sound a bit basic - and maybe a bit like "magazine-stand" advice,
but it's absolutely necessary. If you're still angry
over the breakup, you will communicate a bad "vibe" that
she will pick up on. So you need to let it cool.
It doesn't have to be just anger - it can be any hurt
that you might have over the whole thing. There have
been plenty of women that I felt trashed me on the way
out, and I had to release my anger to move on.
Part of the process is also letting go of HER at the
start, too. Let's face it - nothing is guaranteed in
life. She might move on or get with some other guy, and
if you're not prepared for that, you'll feel like you've
been kicked square in the gut. So make sure you're prepared
for the worst at the same time.
Get Back Ex Girlfriend - Stealth Tactic 2: Give
her a chance to miss you.
Yes, this means that you can't go calling her every
day, or hanging out as friends. Sometimes guys think
that some contact is better than none and they wind up
ruining things by destroying the power of this tactic.
The reality is that most women will give you a second
chance - as long as you don't ruin it by coming on too
strong, or ignoring her boundaries and trying to pressure
her into taking you back.
What you have to do is to show her that you can do fine
without her. The truth is that if she senses that you
are able to move on, she's going to be drawn to your
independence and lack of insecurity. AND she's going
to want to prove something by winning you back if she
thinks she's lost something good.
The longer you can leave her in limbo, wondering what
you're doing and who you're with, the longer her imagination
works in your favor. It's going to be a battle of wills
- but if you can stay on the path, you will be victorious.
Remember my rule of Doubt: The one who is left wondering
the longest is the one that winds up wanting to try again.
Get Back Ex Girlfriend - Stealth Tactic 3: Show
her the new side.
In order for her to want to try it again with you, she's
got to think that there's something worth going back
to. If you gave her enough space with Stealth Tactic
2, then she's probably already wondering if she made
the right decision. She'll be second guessing herself.
Now comes the time to move in with Tactic 3.
What you're going to want to do is setup some kind of
innocent "lunch date," or any reason to meet
up and talk. When you set it up, it should sound innocent
and yet promising at the same time - without sounding
like you're going to do some kind of scary professing
of your undying love.
Here are the keys for this Stealth Date:
1) Be upbeat and fun. No begging or obvious attempts
to ask her to come back.
2) Remind her of one really cool romantic time
you two shared before. Don't get sentimental, but remind her
of the connection you have.
3) Show her that you've made some course corrections. This is your "new side." If she complained
that you liked to stay inside all the time and never
went out, then you need to tell her about how you've
decided to make some changes, and now you're going
out to hang out with friends every week.
4) Thank her for pointing out the thing you needed
to work on or change. You want her to really see that you've
taken in whatever she's said, and you're not angry, judging,
or blaming. In fact, you're actually doing the opposite
- and that's the rarest thing in the world for a guy
to do.
Then end the date on a high note. No need for you to
ask her to come back - or pick up where you left off.
You don't want to voice your intent and steal all the
romantic tension. This is a classic mistake that most
guys make because they lack any self control.
The only think you need to do next is to wait a few
days, then get her to go out with you again, and then
you can start to flirt more and begin again.
The key thing to remember here is that you don't want
to talk about it. You don't want to say: "Hey, let's
give it another shot." You just start romancing
her again, and keep up that new behavior. If she asks,
you just keep her guessing and winning her over with
your new side.
Trust me - she won't argue with it, and she'll be more
than happy to fall right back into your arms again.
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