Recovering From Breakup - Without Losing Your Mind...
So you're done crying your eyes out, moping around your
apartment and staring at the boob tube for hours on end.
What's next on your agenda? MOVE ON!
As the old saying goes, "Pick yourself up, Dust
yourself Up and Start all over again." It may be
easier said than done, but you have to start somewhere. Difficult
as it is to step out into the real world, here's my advice,
JUST DO IT! (But with a plan...)
Recovering from breakup may not be a pleasant
experience right off the bat, but going through it you
just may discover something new about yourself you may
have never thought you were capable of. And that boosts
your self-confidence like nothing else.
What I'm about to reveal are steps to take when recovering
from breakup to get you back on your feet - and eventually
you'll be able to dive into the dating game once more,
guaranteed.
Recovering From Breakup STEP 1: The first step is Enjoy
Being SINGLE again.
Take up a new hobby or learn a new sport. Smash that
racket or swing that golf club, devise ways to enjoy
your "YOU" time. get into that extreme sport
which you have been always wanting to try. It's
great for your body and will do loads of stuff for your
ego.
Well, maybe you're not too much of the sporty type,
then pick up that book you have always wanted to read
or take the first flight out to wherever. Explore and
enjoy being with number 1: YOU.
Then with all that taking time out for number one, you
may have not noticed but all that activity has gotten
you out of the rut you're in, developed your self confidence
and made you whole again. Recovering from a breakup
just might have been the best emotional experience you
can ever have on the road to maturity. With all that
action you may have not realized you have slowly energized
your social life by making new friends and somewhere
in that mix might have made a friend for life.
By this time you are feeling good with yourself by having
rebuilt your inner stability and amaze yourself with
what you have accomplished all this time. Remind yourself
of your value as a person and a human being. This speeds
up the process of recovering from breakup.
Recovering From Breakup STEP 2: Don't wuss out and
go back to her...
Which takes us to the next step, maybe somewhere in
between all that you may have lapsed and succumbed to
the temptation to call your ex or entertain the thought
that she may want you back. (Maybe a 'drunk-dial' or
two...)
So step number two is to stop yourself and tell yourself
you have to keep your dignity and commit to the situation
- that both of you have broken up.
Even if you weren't
the one who broke up your relationship, your ex may still
be hurting too. Keeping away and giving them space as
well as giving yourself space will be for the well being
of both parties recovering from breakup.
Recovering From Breakup STEP 3: Don't dive back in
too soon...
And finally step number three, Frankly, I don't advice
that you go and get involved with anyone at this time.
Take it easy, nice and slow. Relish all the time
to feel better about yourself. The first person you get
involved with may still meet the version of you who is
not yet completely healed, the man recovering from breakup.
Right now, meeting up with friends or acquaintances
for coffee, tea or a few drinks, will help you ease into
the dating scene when you're ready to do so. Until
then, keeping friends close is the best support you will
have, recovering from a breakup until you take the plunge
in to dating again. As a man, this is even more
important,
since most guys don't have the social network of support
that women do.
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Talk soon...
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