4 Ways To Be the Man That Women CRAVE
Fact: women do not like pushovers.
They find such types of men REPULSIVE, and there are certain behaviors to put yourself in that category. The tricky thing is that they’re not going to just tell you what turns them off – you’ll have know that going in.
And if you approach a woman with the wrong vibe, she’ll immediately pick up on your unattractive qualities and flat-out REJECT your advances.
The reason why women won’t tell you is that they don’t consciously know why you’re turning them off – you just are.
Attraction has nothing to do with rational decision-making. Deep in a woman’s mind is that psychological hot button that you either press, or don’t.
So, if you’re not doing the right things to trigger her attraction response, she’ll never perceive you as that decisive, solid-to-the-core guy that she adores.
Here are a few ways to get you started on the right path with women:
#1: Understand that Attraction is MORE than Physicality
Let’s be honest: women will ALWAYS feel attracted to men who are gifted in the looks department. You just have to accept that fact of life – but that’s not where the story ends.
Those guys may an advantage over average-looking men, but looks are by no means the magic bullet to creating irresistible attraction with women.
Cliché as it sounds, what matters more is what you’ve got on the INSIDE. You can still convince women of your Alpha Male qualities if you know how to behave around them.
Sure, you’ve got to dress right, groom yourself well and get that hygiene stuff sorted out at the very least. But a six-pack and a Spartan physique are NOT a prerequisite to being attractive.
Instead, you need to work on your INNER strength. And that begins by killing your need for her to validate you.
This is, by far, the most important quality to have when approaching women. Basing your self-esteem on what she thinks of you is the fastest way to eliminate any possibility of attracting her.
What’s funny though, is that a lot of guys don’t realize that they’re doing this in small ways.
Here are a few examples:
- Asking where you stand with her (“So, do you see us being a couple in the future?”, “I really like you – do you like me too?”).
- Begging for sympathy (“My last girlfriend dumped me because I wasn’t tall enough – I hope you’re not as shallow as her…”, “I had a really rough time in high school and girls didn’t like me…”).
- The inability to make up your mind (“Hey, so I was thinking…if it wasn’t too much trouble…maybe you’d like to have a coffee sometime if it’s ok with you?”, “We can go anywhere you want, I don’t really mind …”)
Doing any of this with a woman makes you seem like you’re embarrassed to share the same physical space as her. That’s not a good attitude to have if you’re trying to be the opposite of NEEDY and WEAK.
If you’re feeling the urge to act like this around a girl, acknowledge this “itch”, but DON’T scratch it. Instead, cool your jets and resist the temptation to beg for her approval or sympathy.